I borrowed it from my sister and it is suppose to be $16, it says its for hold and shine, I used a little to much I think and my hair is like hard as a rock..I heard that you can run your fingers through your hair when you use pomade and it softens it. It also says that its good for holding curly hair, and slicking hair back. Is this pomade way more hard then the other ones?

It sounds like it has wax in it. Look for one that doesn’t, such as Paul Mitchell foaming pomade or something like it.